learning to believe in my dreams

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welcome to 2023 with me, Life Coach Franzannie. When you're feeling stuck or unsure I help you figure out how to get out of your own way so you can get what you want through one on one individual coaching sessions. Coaching gave me the courage to believe that I could have the life of my dreams and take the action steps to make it happen- I quit my job, sold my house and started my own business... Four years later I understand it's going to take longer and be a lot hard erthan I anticipated. 

My theme this year is to Find What Feels Good so I can be obsessed with my life now AND so I'll stick to it. In this podcast, I invite you on this intentional journey into myself... each week I pick a theme and Tuesday through Friday I'll pick different topics I want to examine by asking myself clarifying questions, which is what we do in a coaching session 

This week I'm talking about how coaching changed my life- I feel like when I discovered coaching, there were some macro-level shifts that happened. Revisiting these macro level shifts ensures I stay aligned as I enter a new season in my life.

I went back to my first coaching workbook and the biggest shift I made was  that I learned I can choose what I believe, which led me start believing in my dreams...

In my first coaching class I basically learned that...

Life is created by our beliefs 

We inherit many of our beliefs 

We can choose our beliefs

That epiphany, in and of itself was huge but within that I realized that I was holding myself back and abiding by old rules and that I could create new rules like:

You can do anything you vision for yourself

You deserve whatever you can dream

That same weekend, I created a vision and wrote it out for the first time

The first time I articulated what I wanted outside just to-do lists and NY resolutions

I felt the possibility of what could be an honestly, I was addicted

A good vision brings to life the feelings you'll feel when you accomplish what you want to accomplish and I knew that feeling was worth...all of this. 

It's interesting because that's true for my relationships- I grew up obsessing and daydreaming about a romantic relationship and I manifested that without knowing what manifestation was...

Recently, I realized I hadn't spent any time visioning about the process, this interim time that I'm in. I used to envision my big dreams all the time but that became disempowering after a while...

 So I started visioning what I want this next season to feel like. It's much more motivating 

Out of coincidence, some other new rules I was trying to apply then I'm stilling trying to apply today-

When it's your passion, it doesn't feel like work

The process is the goal 

Through coaching, I learned I could and honestly, that I'm responsible for creating the life I want so I got busy doing just that... 

what action can I take?

reminder- don't just do this for the BIG dreams, get excited about the process

spend time visioning areas in my life i feel stuck/unclear/worried in- journaling, hypnosis

entering a new season with a much busier schedule with a contract and I'm nervous

spend time understanding how I want to feel and what actions would support that

how can you get coaching around this?

does having a vivid daydream really motivate you? is there a part of your life you haven't spent time visioning out for yourself? are you only running AWAY from something, do you need something to run TOWARD? in a coaching session we can spend time visioning the parts of your life that don't feel so clear for you

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